But in spite of all these efforts, when I try to initiate sex, my wife participates through the foreplay and then tells me that she just doesn't feel like having sex or is too tired.She still enjoys kissing and receiving massages from me but that's as far as it goes.Over the course of our marriage, I've seen her interest in sex decline gradually to the point where she doesn't even have an interest anymore.
Although my frustration with this situation has been getting greater and greater, I still have decided to stay in the marriage (at least for now) because I love my wife and believe that marriage is meant to be a life-long commitment.
My wife still tells me she finds me physically attractive and I exercise regularly to keep fit and stay attractive to her so I know that my appearance isn't the issue.
We've had many discussions about this subject and my wife knows how frustrated I have become but she tells me she just no longer has the interest in sex that she once had.
And except for the sexual incompatibility, our marriage is otherwise good.
But at the same time, I know that if I don't have sex I will be missing out on a very important part of my life.